Let’s face it, many fathers don’t deserve a day. This is something I’ve been preaching for years, not only because my own dad—sociopathic abandoner of at least five children—is a dud but because these types of Hallmark-generated holidays, whose exposure have only escalated due to social media, are utter nonsense, established on the basis of capitalist money-grubbing rather than genuine human appreciation. Which isn’t to say that some people don’t celebrate these days in the name of love and respect, but let’s forego that aspect temporarily for the sake of this look at a darker side of parenting.

To be fair, my dad did give me one thing: his passion for movies. So in honor of that gift, and with Father’s Day approaching, now seems like a good time to explore some of the worst dads in cinema history. (And it may go without saying, but they are in all cases terrible husbands as well.)

Much breath and many words have been exhausted on analyzing the god-awful parenting techniques of Jack Nicholson’s axe-wielder Jack Torrance in The Shining; the daughter-raping Noah Cross (John Huston) in Chinatown; and the militant, abusive “Bull” Meecham (Robert Duvall) in The Great Santini. Ample consideration has also been given to the assorted sleazebags, drunkards, abusers, and family-destroyers found in ensemble films like Happiness, American Beauty, Magnolia, Affliction, The Squid and the Whale, and The Celebration; as well as to the more fantastical and cartoonish villains Darth Vader, John Milton (aka Satan) from The Devil’s Advocate, and Royal Tenenbaum. And let’s not leave out the atrocious surrogate father figures of Lolita, The Stepfather, This Boy’s Life, The Night of the Hunter, Firstborn, and There Will Be Blood, to name just a select few.

Here are my picks for five less discussed, but no less horrible, flesh-and-blood fathers featured in some truly memorable, masterful films. [Please excuse the spoilers; it’s impossible to convey the full extent of these men’s atrocities without revealing key plot points.] 

Brad Sr. in At Close Range (James Foley, 1986)

Upon first sight of Christopher Walken’s Brad Sr., with his coiffed hair, porn-star mustache, and smug face, it’s obvious he’s trouble. He abandoned his two sons Brad Jr. and Tommy (played by real-life brothers Sean and Chris Penn) early on, which already makes him despicable. But in this case, negligence would have been the better alternative, for when he reappears, their lives are transformed into a full-blown Greek tragedy. To the young men, stuck in dead-end existences in late-’70s rural Pennsylvania, the appeal of their dad’s unlawful ways is at first undeniable, a potential way out. They begin dabbling in low-level thievery, before being exposed to a whole lot worse. This example of a father as the purest evil (perfectly embodied by Walken) might have seemed far-fetched had this blisteringly grim, moody film not been based on an actual criminal family.

Most Scarring Moments:

  1. Brad Sr. shows up at the door of Brad Jr.’s girlfriend, Terry (Mary Stuart Masterson), demanding that she not see his son anymore. When she refuses, he knocks her around, then rapes her.
  1. Not above filicide (though it’s alluded that Tommy may in fact not be his biological son), Brad Sr. shoots and kills his youngest boy at excruciatingly personal close range.

At Close Range

  1. Brad Sr. checks his watch, knowing that the time is approaching when Brad Jr. and Terry will be gunned down—something he’s arranged, of course.
  1. After Brad Jr. narrowly escapes the bloodbath, he confronts his father at gunpoint. Dad’s pathetic yet emotionally damaging protests include, “I’m your blood; I’m your father” and “I love you… is that what you want to hear?”

“Dad” in Frailty (Bill Paxton, 2001)

A single father, known only as “Dad” throughout the film, at first appears to be a model parent. His wife died giving birth to their second son and he’s raised two well-behaved boys who love him dearly. They are a tightknit trio… until one night an angel pays Dad a visit, forever changing the family’s peaceful dynamic. Is he a messenger of the lord—called upon to help save the world by ridding it of demons hiding behind human form—or is he a raving lunatic? As he pursues what he adamantly believes to be his new calling, his younger, more impressionable son, Adam, supports his every move, while the older one, Fenton, resists, knowing his dad is, as he puts it, “not right in the head.” A devastating family drama wrapped in a twisty Gothic chiller, Frailty explores just how damaging the infliction of fanatical religious beliefs—and intense acts of violence—on the young and impressionable can be. Director-star Bill Paxton gives a layered, bone-chilling performance as a saint turned sinner and possible sire of a next generation of serial killers.

Most Scarring Moments:


  1. Dad arrives home one day armed with his demon-slaying weapon and protective gloves. His younger son, Adam, wants to believe in this new mission from God, while older brother Fenton is not so easily convinced.
  1. After bringing his first victim/“demon” home, Dad again insists that he’s just doing his duty. He then proceeds to kill the terrified woman with an axe in front of both children.
  1. Fenton, continuing to strongly oppose his father’s acts—even to the point of going to the police—is told he has no faith, and is locked in the cellar until he finds some.
  1. After days of no food and water, Fenton finally sees the light—no doubt caused by approaching death—and Dad puts him to the test by tasking him to slay the next demon.

Allie Fox in The Mosquito Coast (Peter Weir, 1986)

Obsession of another kind drives Allie Fox (Harrison Ford). Not a religious man in the conventional sense, it’s his own forceful, skewed beliefs that are his scripture—and eventually the cause of his family’s disintegration. A misunderstood genius inventor and vocally anti-American loudmouth, he speaks to his children as if they’re his peers and to everyone else as if they’re idiots, even his all-too-devoted wife he tellingly calls “Mom.” Despite his eccentricities, though, his four kids—particularly his oldest son Charlie (River Phoenix)—seem enamored of him. But when on a whim he decides to pack up the family and move to the Honduran jungle, without for a second taking into account their safety or wishes, a slow descent into misery begins. Once settled into their harsh new life, Allie, with Aguirre-like passion, refuses to let anything get in his way of the success of his new invention—a non-electric ice machine—even resorting to telling his children that America was destroyed in a nuclear disaster, to squash their desires of going home. Ford has done his finest work with director Peter Weir (see also Witness) and this may be the best, most dedicated performance of his career.

Most Scarring Moments:

Mosquito Coast

  1. Allie introduces his family to their new home—a serious decline in their usual standards of living—where they must sleep on top of one another until additional shelter is built.
  1. The kids are troopers in their new life of physical labor, but the one time his younger son, Jerry, complains, Allie taunts him for being tired, and tells him to pull himself together and be a man.
  1. When unwelcome, gun-toting rebels show up trying to take over their land, Allie wakes his oldest son, Charlie, in the middle of the night to help get rid of them. But the plan of freezing the men in the ice machine goes terribly awry.
  1. After his sons go against his wishes—by desiring to go home—he calls them traitors and punishes them by towing them in a small boat behind theirs. At this point they both fully realize just how far gone he is.

Jake Heke in Once Were Warriors (Lee Tamahori, 1994)

Jake Heke is one fiercely passionate man. Somewhere deep down he loves his beautiful wife, Beth, and their five children, but he has way too many demons to express his feeling with kindness. Instead, wallowing in his insecurities—he is a descendant of slaves, while Beth comes from warriors; an imbalance he can’t get past—he drinks like crazy and behaves like a macho wild beast, acting out regularly with unpredictable rage. Life is rough all around for this Maori family, who face societal hardships and prejudices in modern Auckland, but Jake still takes the prize as the biggest threat. A brilliant, purely engrossing film—with stunning performances across the board—Once We Were Warriors will make you cry like a baby with every viewing. But even in all its devastation, unlike At Close Range this one ultimately leaves you more hopeful that the father can be escaped.

Most Scarring Moments:

  1. Four of Jake’s children cower in the dark as he beats their mother to a pulp in the next room.
  1. After a “cross-my-heart” promise to have only one beer, Jake chooses to get drunk and watch horseracing with his mates instead of driving his family—who wait in the parking lot—to visit Boogie, his son who’s being held at a juvenile detention center.
  1. Jake forcefully reprimands his oldest daughter, Grace, who refuses to give a good-night kiss to “Uncle” Bully—the man who, at this point unbeknownst to Jake, raped her the night before. She commits suicide shortly thereafter.

Once Were Warriors

  1. Even as his family pulls away, Jake desperately yells after them that they need him and will be back.

Ace Stamper in Splendor in the Grass (Elia Kazan, 1961)

Elia Kazan’s heartrending, flawless film, written by William Inge, is not only a case study in the painful missed connections of first love but also in compromised parenting. Bud Stamper and Deanie Loomis (the too-perfect-for-words Warren Beatty and Natalie Wood) are the young couple hopelessly in love but torn apart by their uncertainty in what’s right and wrong, as inflicted on them by their parents and small-town society. Their parents too are victims of time and place—1928 in southeast Kansas—as well as their own dubious upbringings. Deanie’s mom is aggressive but well-meaning in her short-sightedness and her dad sweet but cowardly. Bud’s mom is treated as a bystander, and acts as one accordingly. But it’s his father, Ace (a staggering Pat Hingle), that is a true nightmare of parenting. An obnoxious, sexist bully, he is also a terrible listener and provider of the worst possible advice to his son, shattering his future and in large part responsible for the tragic emotional collapses of both Bud and Deanie, innocents now marred for life. When it comes down to it, money is really the only thing that matters to Ace, and he jumps out of a window when he loses everything in the stock market crash of 1929.

Most Scarring Moments:

  1. Always sweaty and disheveled, the hard-drinking Ace Stamper tells his son he would do anything for him, but doesn’t listen to a word he says and proceeds to make plans for his future as he alone sees fit.
  1. After Bud finally finds the courage to speak his mind—saying he wants to go to agricultural school and marry Deanie—his father tells him that “A boy your age doesn’t know what he wants” and yet again bullies him into going away to Yale and putting off the wedding, recommending that in the meantime Bud find himself a “different” kind of girl.
  1. The opposite of Bud, his sister Ginny is an outspoken loose cannon who clearly acts out because she yearns for acceptance—surely in no small part due to her father’s blatant disregard. On New Year’s Eve she tries to show Ace a little affection but he flips out on her, telling her yet again to behave herself, which of course provokes her to act up even more. 


  1. At a nightclub, Ace, showing Bud his “generosity,” tries to rent him the girl on stage for the evening—because she looks just like Deanie, the girl Bud loves and doesn’t have because of his father’s selfishness. (The dancer later comes knocking on Bud’s hotel-room door.)